Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Making Notes

I have been in the scene for two months now. I have lately been drifting away from core material and the reason is that I never take notes. I have been kinda depending on my strong memory to help me, but it just hasn't worked. I need to restudy all my old material and really develop my own personal notebook of routines and strategies. It's the only way to really hone my skills. I was just re-watching some Style DVDs and I realized that all these routines I thought I had memorized, were totally different. Making notes and developing a notebook that is just for me is the best way to really learn on a deep level. I had to take notes in school and I have to take them now. I can see how it takes years to become a master, but I want to do everything I can to shorten that amount of time. I spend a lot of time listening to CDs and reading books, but if I want that to be effective I gotta really put in the grind.

Solutions Create Problems

So now that I'm going to the gym all the time, I have a ton more dirty laundry. I live in a shared house, so my laundry lives in my room until I have enough to run the washing machine. My room is starting to stink! Just a hint of a little, but I am noticing it already. I take more showers and so I bring more moisture into my room to mix with all my sweaty clothes. I am going to have to do laundry more often, but I can't do it every day. I have to think of some kind of solution. Don't really have room for a hamper or anything. I lit my rose candle, but that is really something I want to save for touchy time you know? Oh ya, and HBLanky hasn't returned any of my texts or my facebook message, although she did add me as friends. I am in a strong place now of totally not caring, which I think is a really strong frame. I wanted to see what kissing a tall girl would be like, I experienced it and got some photos with her. So I'm totally cool. When I see her out we will still totally be friends because I won't be in a place of neediness. I am growing, even if it's only baby steps.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Can you be too tall

So I went out last night with some of my buddies. I decided to throw a few back and be casual. I was at my local hanging out with a few friends and a ton of interesting things happened. First, three girls came in who wanted attention so bad. There were two chubby brunettes and a slim blonde. They were dressed to party and they went to their table in this laid back pub. And they stood around it, basically begging to be approached. None of them appealed to me, so I just studied the social dynamics of it all. No one approached them. They had spent ages getting ready and they wanted attention so bad, but they didn't realize that they were putting guys off by being so strong. I think I was the only guy in the room who really saw what was going on. Unfortunately, I feel really uncomfortable gaming in the pub. It's like my homebase and everyone there knows the old me. Too many people would be watching, it would be like gaming on stage. Eventually, I might get to that level, but for right now it's too close to my social circle. (This will soon become ironic). After 30 minutes of no attention they moved on in search of greener pastures.
Shortly after they left, this dude came in. He was scruffy and wearing a cheap t shirt. I was thinking, weird, everyone else looks nice in here....As I looked around I realized every single woman was tracking this guy. It turns out he is on Hollyoaks. A british soap opera, that I don't watch. So many girls wanted to approach him, but they were all afraid to. It was funny to see women get a taste of the approach anxiety I experience every day. Anyways, I really saw how powerful even a little fame can be. The guy was obviously pretty normal as he was there meeting a 5set that I decided not to approach the moment I saw them. None were cute enough for me. I mean I'm not the king of Japan, yet, but I am moving up the scale right now and I won't deal with a girl below HB7. That's just how it is for me. I am in a phase where I am starting to see the first hints of the Matrix, so I can really enjoy sitting back and absorbing human behavior.
After a while I convinced my mates to change locations with me. I think this is really important on a night. Especially because out pub is never very sexy. There are three blondes that hang out there a lot. One is cute. But her two friends really make her personality change there. And they are just a little too bitter for me to want to be around. One of the girls has the strongest bitch shield I have yet encountered. She is always complaining that she can't get a man. It's an amazing level of self-deception. I couldn't be less attracted to her, but one night I decided to test some routines on her just to see what would happen. She was just horrible and mean. She hated every joke. It was a very telling lesson. Anyways, I really don't bother talking to them anymore. But the one cute girl works some nights at the pub where I met HBLanky Friday night. And she seemed a little better there.
Anyways, we change locations to this other pub and I see HBLanky as soon as I get there. She is ensconced in a group of about 5 guys and locked in with her back to the wall. My friends were all like go talk to her now. And I was like, no I will wait til the right moment. There is plenty going on here. So I chilled with my friends. (I will get back to HBLanky in a moment......) So the one cute blonde from the other pub shows up and is chilling with one of my friends. This guy is really popular and super friendly. He always thinks the best of people. Translation, he has a total inability to close. It's almost amazing. I think a woman could get naked in front of him and he would just think she wants him to check for ticks. It's a little bit sad, because he has mentioned he wants some help from me in the past. So we are chatting to this blond who has made moves on him in the past. I told him how much she likes him, but he is socially retarded. He even told me that they are too good of friends for anything to happen. It's the first time I've seen a guy shove a hot girl into the friend zone. Anyways, I run my photo routine. First, I get some pics with her. Then I take some pics of the two of them. I work on amping up the attraction. I really enjoy seeing what I can get away with. I got her to take a sexy photo, then kissing, then a longggggggggg kiss....Then I told them to make is sexier and for him to put his hand on her boob. He balked before she did. Then I was like come on be slutty, you know you are. And boy did it go pete tong there. She freaked out and goes YOU THINK I'M A SLUT. I went what? Of course I don't. But she freaked out. And started crying and everything. I mean the old me would have felt really bad and guilty, but I know it is mostly she has some issue. I noticed that she was really up for it until my friend balked. Once she realized he thought it was slutty, she wasn't up for it. He created a bad frame. Right when she was on the ledge. So I feel a little bit bad, but mostly because I am gonna see this girl again. I am not sure how I will deal with it, but hopefully I won't see her for at least a week. Later on I asked my friend if there was actually tongue in one of the photos and he was like no way man!!! We are too good of friends. Sigh. I hate people who complain that they can't close with women, when really it's all their own fault. Anyways, I will repair things with this girl eventually and prolly fclose her. I have a strong feeling. Anyways, I ejected from the set right away. To make the akward period as short as possible. Let the other guys hang out with her while she cries. No one got mad at me or anything so I have social proof that agrees with my internal feeling. It was a miscalibration on my part. Mainly do to having just talked dirty to HBLanky. So let's get back to the good part of the story.
I wait for the right moment to re-open HBLanky. She remembers me and goes nuts. I created a strong impression the night before. Even though I didn't run enough of my routines, my inner game is getting stronger. I have a much stronger center of internal gravity. So we chat some, share some ciggies and chat a lot. She also introduced me to more of her friends. One of whome is at least a 9, maybe higher....I was a lil tipsy. Anyways she instroduces me to about 8 girls throughout the night, all HB6s or higher and gives me strong social proof. Now I am currently of the bird in the hand school, so I didn't try and use her to pivot to any of her friends. It's too soon for that. Plus I would really enjoy a tall girl. She mentioned her height a lot, I think these are little shit-tests which are rooted in her self-consciousness about her height. I made sure to always ignore her height comments. She also brought up her large breasts a lot. I ignored them too. I was like whatever when she tried to poke them at me. I know a shit-test when I see one (sometimes). Anyways, it was really cool we talked a lot and I got a coupla kisses on the mouth (no tongue sadly) and her number. It was pretty cool. Especially becuase all my friends saw and they knew I liked her. So good social proof....
On the way home, she was walking with me and another dude. We all live in the same direction. One of her friends was having a big fight with some other girls and so she stuck around in case things turned physical. She asked me to stick around because I am a kinda big guy. Anyways, the old me woulda been interested in a fight. But my frame was, there is less likely to be violence if I'm there. So I just leaned against a wall running James Dean and texting HBLanky. Her friend with the drama was an 18yearold, the HB9+ I mentioned earlier. So I was happy to be around. I know there is a school of thought that says to not let anyone control me, especially since some friends were calling me to come meet them right then, but I think that sometimes it's ok to do the right thing. It can't always be about amoral game can it? So eventually these girls resolved nothing after like 10 boring minutes of yelling and crying. Boring for me. I been around that block before. Anyways, the other kids ran off and then HB9+ called for a ride and walked off to meet them. She said goodnight to HBLanky and the other boy, but nothing to me. Which was fine by me becuase she didn't really know me. But HBLanky goes, say goodnight to me. So the girl did. It was cool.
So then finally the three of us start walking down towards our houses. I meet up my friends. It's my friends gf who doesn't like me to hook up for some reason and another girl I'm just not interested in at all. They are with 2 random guys. They want me to go with them across town to some apartment to get more drunk. No thanks! I don't wanna be the 5th wheel in some weird situation, let alone be trapped across town. Anyways I rejoin the other two and the girl is trying to booty call a guy in another town. But he won't pay the 7pounds cab fare. It kinda makes her look lame and me and the other guy are laughing. This is the strongest frame I could think of. Anyways, we split up near my house, but I text her when I get home for her last name, because she asked me to add her on facebook. I finally find her and later when I'm in bed we trade a few naughty texts. Basically stuff that is like almost sexual. I can't actually tell if she is interested in me. I struggled to see IOIs. We did some hand holding and I tried the squeeze test. I couldn't tell if she was squeezing back because her hand is a lot bigger than mine. Ha! Either I will close this girl, or I will develop her into a pivot. Either one is fine with me. A good result.
Oh ya and I was back at the gym today. I used the new program on my phone. I think it only keeps track of my last given workout. So I can't chart long-term progress, but I can always see what I lifted last time. I think that's really good enough. I just need to see that I'm always working harder. My weight was at 98.85kg today. I think it's that initial phase where you lose a little waterweight when you start exercising again. Anyways, I am feeling better about myself. I am going through a phase where I am more self-conscious about my body right now. Mostly becuase I am thinking I wish this girl could see how good I'm about to look. I will control that thought soon enough! Later.

Saturday, February 23, 2008

The Long and the Short

Last night I'm out with a few friends on a friday night. My usual place wasn't letting people in for some reason, so I went to a nearby pub that I have been avoiding for months. I went there a few times and it was pretty lame, but last night it was heaving with sexy ladies. I was exhausted from work and time in the studio, so I really wasn't on top of my game. I just chatted to my friends a lot and peeped a few cute girls. One of my favorite pivots was out with a couple of HB5s and the old me would have definitely taken one home. I am not interested in that now. So I am downstairs getting drinks with one friend and I totally fail to open this one really tall brunette, HBLanky. I just don't say anything. It's 100% on me that one. I'll explain more at the end. Later on my friends are about to change bars, so I decide to give the bar one last run through. I am talking to one of my mates and the tall HB from before walks right up to him and hugs him and they start talking. He is super drunk and they are chatting tons, but he never brings me into the conversation. So I play it cool and start chatting to one of the HB5s when she comes past. I inject myself into the conversation with HBLanky at the right moment. We chat some and then decide to put some tunes into the jukebox. She ends up running off my mate and then the two of us pick a couple of tunes. We chat a bit more and then I eject at the right moment, leaving her available for a re-open later. I run into my mate and tell him I like her, because I want to see if he is into her or something. He gives me a look of disgust and says how can you like her? I think becuase she is so much taller than both of us. About an hour later I re-open her after spending time with some other friends who showed up and we chat some more. She told me where she works and some other basic stuff. He friend was in the middle of making up with an x who cheated on her on her birthday, so HBLanky was really upset about that. She never talked to me about that, which was cool. But between our conversations she was stressing with her other friends. She is really into American TV and we chatted about that. It was cool. I never went for the close. It just was never the right moment. She was too distracted.
I have a couple of issues that I am really trying to focus on now. The first is that I have just lost the plot with my game. I am starting to meander big time. I realize today that I never looked for IOIs or tried to really crank up attraction. I have plateaued and I don't like it. I didn't run any of my stock material or routines on her. I didn't tell any of my DHV stories and I barely kinoed her. For some reason lately, I have fallen into a rhythm that is not nearly tight enough. I really need to refocus and tighten my game. I am aware of it outside, but when I am in set my brain is just faltering. I really need to get over this hump. There was no reason for me not to close this girl last night. I mentioned the thing with her friend as an obstacle I needed to overcome, not as an excuse for my failure to close. The reason I couldn't close was because I had never really pushed myself through the attraction phases. Sigh. I need to just sit down and re-study my core method.

PS I went to the gym again today for 1-2 hours. I kind of lost track of time. I jogged about halfway there. Further than I was able to on Wed. I'm already feeling so much more vibrant. I rowed and used the elliptical machine and did some back and bicep weights. I weighed in at 99.40kg today. A small drop from earlier in the week, but I am keeping track of it all. I downloaded a program for my phone to keep track of my workouts. Hopefully I will stick with filling it out. Although I am not sure I will want to play with my phone when I am all sweaty.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Playing Catch Up

I keep being like 2 weeks behind in my blogs. So I'm gonna wrap up the last week and a half for you. I have been number closing still but not converting. I realize I really need to work on the attraction phase. Sometimes I get discouraged, but then I talk to my wing and I feel better. I have opened more girls in the last 6 weeks than I did in the last 6 months. And more and more guys are responding to my confidence. It's really good. Last week at the train station I got stopped for a "random" terrorist search by the police. I get this a lot at airports in America so I don't really mind you know? Anyways my body language was so strong in the interview and I was so confident and relaxed that he actually didn't search me. He just filled out his little form. I talked about where I'm from in America and how I understand he is just doing his job. It's amazing how this lifestyle fits in everywhere. I mean I would have acted the same before too. But now I understand.
I am really working on pushing boundaries more as well. Last nite I opened these 2 girls with are you following me? Since I saw them at two clubs in a row. I talked to them all nite at different points. And one of my smartass friends tried to blow me out by saying he's hitting on you girl! And I just said that's impossible she's not my type. She spent the rest of the night focused on that. And trying to find out why. It was actually true so there was nothing she could do. But it was interesting to see how powerful one small statement could be.
I would also like to take this time to talk about orbiters. Last night my friend who is a natural was out with his gf. She is really cute and has a serious orbiter. The guy was like being sad and even just started crying at one point. She kept rubbing his leg and being friendly. At one point he ran outside like a little girl and my friend started freaking out and getting jealous. He was like why is she flirting with him. I explained to him about orbiters and the LJBF zone. I even taught him some boyfriend destroyers and demonstrated when she came back in with her orbiter. I was like it's so awesome how this guy isn't afraid to show his feelings. Like he dresses so metal but inside he's just a normal boring guy who's full of normal emotions. Isn't it great when a girl and guy can be just friends and it is totally non-sexual? Like you're almost brother and sister and you can have deep emotions and closeness with no sexuality.....Etc. My friend loved it. But God if someone had done that to me last year i would have had a conniption ! It's cool to see how far I've gone and how just understand the basics of social dynamics puts me ahead with even my friends. I mean I totally emasculated the guy but it's better for him to get over his one-itis now. My epic lasted 30 months. So really I justify it all by saying I'm helping him! Ha!
These are the main highlights of the last two weeks. Oh. I also finally admitted that my greatest weakness with ladies is my body. So I joined a gym yesterday. I have been using money as an excuse for months now. Finally I just said f it, it's time. I weighed myself today and I have gained 3 kilos in the last 6 months. Which really isn't that bad, but I was already kinda chubby and my weight before was more lean as I was exercising a lot and running. Anyways I weigh 100.25 kilos today. I will keep posting my weight here and there as I work out since it's part of my life now you know?
I am sure that there are a lot of events that I have forgotten to mention about the last week, but really I think only one of my friends reads this blog and I know he will forgive me. I have ups and downs on the course of this project, but overall my life is better than it was 2 months ago. Everyday I feel more comfortable with myself and I think that's great. I can't even imagine how smooth I will be in a year. Later.

Monday, February 11, 2008

A trip to Poland

Last saturday when I went out with my wing and we ran into the redhead/brunette 2set our original plan was to meet up with this girl I know who wanted me to help her with a guy she likes and in exchange she was going to buy me drinks and introduce me to some HBs of her own from work. This girl is wicked tall so I will call her HBigtop. She totally blew me off that night and didn't return my texts or calls. She just didn't show up after confirming the meet at like 9pm. Anyways, that just sets the stage for a cool night.
I had plans for two weeks to meet up with my favorite pivot. This HBlond has loved me since I had a ONS with her best friend at her birthday party. This is all detailed in my first angel wings blog. I really liked her friend but she decided to not call me back or text me after our shag. Oh well. Live and learn.
So I go to meet the blond at one of my favorite venues. But the place looks like a ghost town in the old west. They should have brought in tumble weeds... I run into a guy I kinda know. A few weeks ago he pulled off my headband and scared off a 3set of cougars that had approached the both of us. Anyways, he has certainly changed his tune. He asked who I was there with and I told him the girl I was waiting for. He actually asked if it was ok if he hung out with me. I told him sure but I didn't want any of his friends to join us. I just don't want to be one guy in a huge group with 1 girl. Even if she is an HBlonde. She is very fit and loves the gym so from now on I will call her HBtrainer. She shows up and we start chilling. She isn't drinking because she is in training for a big competition. Oh well. She then tells me that Hbigtop is on the way. I was like man I'm not cool with her after the burn on saturday. I will still talk to the girl but I won't make plans with her again. When she shows up she is all apologies and explains how she got drunk and couldn't find her phone and then she felt so bad she was afraid to text to apologize. I put the grind to her to make it clear that is not ok in my universe and I send her to get me a drink. After punishing her I let it go becuase I don't need to appear needy or weak. I let her know that I went out and had a great time that night anyways. We hang out for a while and I take turns talking to each girl and locking in. The blond tells me how she is starting to hate her housemate. He is the one guy who hated on my wings so I agree with her. He thinks he is God's gift to women. That will only work so long. He is gonna be homeless soon. HA! Anyways we connect on this level as I establish that I am a nice guy looking for a soulmate who just loves women. After an hour or so she decides to just crash. She is tired and low energy so I don't complain. I am not gonna drag someone around when they are not feeling it. No point really. So I take HBigtop with me to my afterhours. We get there and it is rammed. It is full of beautiful women and AFCs. I used to hate crowded clubs and I used to count ratios. The old me would have been so disappointed. It was almost 3 men to every woman. But all the guys looked like they fell from the same photocopier. I tell my pivot to watch my back and to point out any guys she likes. Fortunately, each guy is worse than the last. Outside a pair of cuties open me by asking if I'm gay. I was in heaven. I chat to them for a while. One girl says she is psychic so I read her palm. She is really impressed by my cold reading. We chat for a while and then they tell me they are a couple. I think they thought it would break my frame. I ask how long they have been together and some other things. They were ok conversation but not as cool as some lesbians I have known in the past. The conversation ends pretty naturally and I return to my pivot who is pretty impressed. We go back inside and it is so packed that we slip to the front of the club and grab a table. The table next to us empties and to lovely HBrunettes ask if they can sit there. I tell them it is saved. Then before they walk off I allow them to sit. One girl walks off to get drinks and leaves her friend to wait. Right then HBigtop points out a bouncer that she thinks is cute. I say watch this and turn to the girl and say "my friend HBigtop likes that bouncer what should she say to him?". The girl can't understand me because English is not her first language. I persist and don't lose my frame. In the end she never understood me but I rolled right into more conversation. It was really smooth. We stayed in set for about 2 hours. It was really interesting. It was hard to game to girls who struggle with English. I failed to run my routines with much success. But I number closed both of these lovely Polish girls before they left and got up to hug-level kino with the prettier one. Afterwards I told me pivot she needs to make sure to big me up more and mention some DHV things about me. So that I don't have to do it. But it was pretty cool. I actually liked these girls and want to hang out with them again. Even if I can't fclose they are lovely pivot material. After they left all these guys came to ask me how I did it and stuff. I was like I just like to talk to people and have a cool time. I am not throwing my secrets to the dogs you know? All these guys wanted to wing with me then and I said that I was too exhausted to flirt with more girls. Some other pivots showed up by then anyways. So I just chilled. I got opened up by 2 younger girls outside. They had nice bodies but no personality. I am really focused on what Thundercat preaches about knowing what you want before you go out. So I only want to chill with hot girls that are also cool. And since I had just left a pair these two lost my interest quickly.
It was a great night and the next day both girls returned my texts. I don't know if it will go anywhere but I am pretty sure I will see them this week. My wing's birthday is Wednesday. I am going to invite all of my pivots out for this one! It is a great chance to get these girls back out I hope.
Oh. I know you're wondering, of course I took pictures with them. I run style's photo routine on every girl I meet. Great social proof!!!!

Out with the boys

I decided on Thursday to go to my local pub and just see my boys. I had a major day in the studio booked and I didn't want to be tired for it. I sometimes think I spend to much time sarging. But when I'm out all I want to do is sarge. I really don't enjoy the things I used to as much. I am changing a lot inside. I am spending more and more time with girls. I have more girl friends around me now than ever before in my life. And more and more of them are developing levels of attraction for me or wanting to wing me. It's really cool!
Anyways, I throw back just a few at my local as I'm really into staying in control these days. I end up with 3 of my friends as the place closes and we decide to hit up the after hours. I can't remember all the details of the night but we just were hanging out and having a lovely time. I chatted to a few girls but nothing really special comes to mind. I opened some sets and was having a cool time. I was hoping to run into the HBartender from the week before who was being cool to me. She wasn't working. The highlight of the night was when a sexy blond grabbed my ass and walked off. I couldn't find a good way to approach as she was ensconced between 2 girls and 3 guys in a corner when I saw her again. I wanted to go direct but that is tough to sort out in a group setting. I was going to say that she should apologize for sexually harassing me or something like that. Really jokey and strong frame. It just didn't work out. But man why complain? No girls were grabbing my ass last month. Let alone an HBlond8.5 you know? Girls can really smell confidence and I am starting to reek of it! Anyways more of my friends were really impressed and they are really respecting me more! Actually the bum grab mighta happened the night before. Sometimes these nights run together. But I am sure of the venue and the event. See how honest I am. My life is really going well now!!!

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Bad Jazz

Wednesday night I went out to see a girl sing some jazz. I met her last week and made the plans. I met her through a classmate, but I could not determine if they were dating or not. He is kinda strange and doesn't return texts even tho we talk at school all the time. He seems nice and he's pretty funny. Anyways, when I ask how they know each other they just mention we all go to the same school. I chat to him a lot because I would never go after a mate's girl and also to make sure any approach is indirect. But I'm going on and on about last week....
I meet up with my wing and we're excited to see some jazz, which is very sexy you know? Anyways, as I'm about to leave Girl1 from last night calls and wants to come. She says she can only stay and hour so I say fine. I text my wing and say we got a pivot. He texts back and says that girl is not a pivot. He was totally right and I was about to find out just how right. She is such a wet blanket. She's not a bad person really. Just she brings a whole room down..........to depression town. We walk up to the club together and we are having casual conversation. We get there and the place is stone cold empty. The girl looks really cute and I know it's a good chance to increase my social proof no matter what. She has lots of cute friends at school. We grab some drinks and go to sit in the back. I show off my new magic trick to my wing and it turns out it doesn't work in low light! How embarrassing, but it works great in the right lighting. I start dropping some new jokes I've memorized to test the crowd. I tell one that has been getting strong reactions lately and suddenly Girl1 just storms out of the club. I have no idea why, but she made me look like an asshole to the band since they see it all. I totally ignore it because there is nothing else we can do. And to be honest we were both glad she was gone. She had already started complaining about my house mate not texting enough. I ran into her a few days later and she said that I pick on her too much. Since she stormed out after a canned joke that wasn't about her at all I know it is just because she is crazy. But the damage was done. Conversation with the HBSinger didn't' happen again that night. She threw me a few smiles but no conversation. I decided not to push it and I will just talk to her next week, when I am in more control of the frame again. I have since told me house mate that he can't hang out with me when I'm out if he is bringing his gf. She has made it clear that she will destroy me every chance she gets....and she has kept to her promise. Well not a promise, but she is just super lame and wants to make the world lame too.
Back to the story....We have to sit there for over an hour while the band sets up and practices the same song and stuff. I was so shocked. I hate when a band tells me the wrong time to get somewhere. After an hour the girls family and their old friends show up. Not a single person I would ever want to talk to. The drummer is her dad and he is so lame. We are in a tiny club covered in tile and reflective surfaces. For jazz you do not need a drummer in a place like this. He gets super drunk and it's like I can see that he wants to live his failed musician dreams through his daughter. To me seeing her jazz band was actually a DLV. She can sing but she is a prisoner of her dad's shattered dreams. Anyways the music was alright but there were no original songs and me and my wing are stuck in the back. A second bartender comes in later and she is an HB9blonde. Really sexy. But she knows it. As me and my wing are clearly the sexiest guys in her age group in the place she keeps having to get stuff from the storage behind our table. Unfortunately, we both got the feeling she just liked attention. Neither of us felt capable of handling a 1set in such a situation. Any approach would have to be direct and would put too much control in her favor. We are both student's of Badboy's methods but we haven't taken his workshop yet. We just did our best to be the exception. We didn't look at her very much. The one time she made eye contact with me was when I actually wasn't paying attention. She threw a smug smile. Like I know I'm cute. Not in a bad way mind you. I do the same thing when I feel smooth. I thought it was funny because I had been mind wandering and she crossed my line of view. HA!
Anyways, we stayed for both sets of the band. They only played like an hour of covers and then we moved on to my usual after hours. I couldn't really chat to HBSinger as she was surrounded by lame family members and hangers-on. I would have tried a number close or bounce but it just wasn't feasible. Unless we stayed to watch the band pack. I had enough DLV from girl1 so we got outa there. At my after hours I run into my mate who has been outa the country for 2months. He is a legend and very popular. He is there with my other friend's new girlfriend. She is also from my school and AFC me had tried to approach her in the past. She looks like a cat so I will call her HBCat. She actually said she's never seen me at school before. WOW! Just goes to show how the world is not what you think when you are an AFC. Anyways, we chat a ton and her friend is super into me. She is about a 5 i guess. A Chubby little blonde. No thanks. She wore a cowboy scarf so I will call her HBScarf (i don't have the heart to say UG because she was nice.) I ran a lot of attraction material on both girls just to see their reactions. HBcats boyfriend is a natural who really does Cajun's body language routine's naturally. He is a really nice guy and it was cool when he showed up. By then I had tried out all the stuff I wanted to. The blonde girl asked to be my fag-hag. She couldn't tell if I was gay and so I was in total control of her. I made sure to take a ton of photos as always with HBCat for social proof. I am increasing my stock at school every day! Over the last two days I have really learned that this material works much better on attractive girls. The less attractive girls are just soooooooo boring! I mean they should have better personalities but they just don't. I don't want to date an AFCgirl ever again. I am no longer a low self esteem guy. I hate that I ever was, but I am so glad to be living in the future now!

Bad Pivots

Tuesday I went out with my house mates girlfriend and her best friend. I sometimes get worn out by her because she is the epitome of the female AFC, but she really wanted to introduce me to this girl so I was curious. I checked out the girl in advance on facebook and was a little disappointed to see that she was a blonde and not really my type. Anyways, we met near town and walked to one of the bars I like. It was totally empty so I just walked us right out and into another place. It was empty too. I guess you can't really expect action at 7pm on a Tuesday can you?
Anyways I started showing off my dominance early on by only buying myself drinks and sitting with my back to the wall. So to the crowd it looked like the girls were facing me. I started trying out all my material on them but they were unbelievably boring. They hate anything spiritual and were not interested in my palm reading skills. They didn't want to talk about animals or relationships. They just kept having "remember when..." conversations. I really consider this the lowest form of public conversation. When my housemates girlfriend (Girl1) wasn't talking to her friend (Girl2) about the good times in their past, she was talking to me about things Girl2 never witnessed. I wanted to die. I was even texting everyone in my phone to find an exit plan, to no avail. I finally decided that this was going nowhere fast, so I bounced them to my usual afterhours bar and decided to just get twisted. I mean I might as well do something I enjoy. We started getting pitchers and once they were drunk with me it wasn't so unbearable. Unfortunately, girl1 just wanted to spend the whole night pouring out her insecurities about my housemate to her. He doesn't text enough, he's not needy enough, he doesn't call enough, she likes him so much and doesnt' want to lose him............ She has oneitis in the worst way and is probably gonna lose him because of it. Nothing is quite so unattractive as insecurity. She never listens to me when I tell her to stop that shit and just chill out. Anyways, as I got drunky big time Girl2 started looking more and more attractive and we started clicking. I know. I know. It was the booze and the darkness so what? I decided that I might just throw the girl a courtesy shag. Anyways, girl1 is acting really bored and sleepy and says that she really just wants to go home and go to bed. Girl2 says go home I wanna keep partying. Girl1 refuses to leave and says she can't abandon Girl2. I even promise to walk Girl2 home as I have walked girl1 home before, but no dice. Girl1 is determined to cockblock. I don't know why she made such a big deal of me meeting this girl if she just wanted to shut it down. I gotta pretty annoyed because there were some really lovely brunettes about but I was too drunk to game them. One of my really good friends showed up later and hung out. He is wicked and a really good guy. He is kinda stuck in AFC land, but I think he wants to start becoming a little bit more like me. It's cool now that I've passed the stage where my friends try and pull me down. Now they just respect me and want to be more like me. It's really cool how my frame has one out. Without me having to lose a single friend! Anyways, we are chilling with both girls and they are super wasted but they demand another pitcher. I tell them they can't handle it, but do they listen?? Hell no. Girl2 goes 2 sheets to the wind and I have to go get her some water. Girl1 finally drags her out of the club after her succesfull cockblocking. I realize that I can't let her be around me and attractive women anymore. It's funny because I have the same problem with another of my friend's girlfriends. They both do everything they can to keep me from chatting to their friends and other girls when I'm out. I think this is super lame. I am aware of it......Anyways.... The story of this night is that some girls don't know what they want and just want everyone to feel bad with them. I don't know why a girl would introduce me to her friend and then block any action. It's just boring to me. I am annoyed with myself for getting drunk and then not being able to chat to some lovely girls. It's my own fault and I have learned that I will only play social circle game with girls that are cool.

The First Reading

So I just went to check on this blog and I realize that now I am over a week behind. I feel like such a bastard. I have about 6 blogs or something I need to write tonite. Hopefully, I won't mix up this week in my head. At least I know where to start. Saturday night, armed with our new palm reading skills me and me wing went on the prowl. For a Saturday night, everywhere seemed so dead. We started off at our usual haunt. We were outdoors, but under some umbrellas with plenty of heat lamp things. We sat down at a table waiting for the place to fill up when three guys surround us, accusing us of taking their table. One look and I knew they were low value men, so we tried to just leave, but they wanted us to stay. They joined us and talked our ears off for at least an hour but it felt like two. They even tried to get us to bounce with them. When we would try and stand up, they would grab us and be like please stay please stay. I can see now how to use social akwardness to keep someone as a conversational prisoner. They were heading off to another bar and kept asking us to go with them. They weren't gay even, just losers. I saw two of them when I was out the next saturday, but fortunately they left me alone this time. I don't want to surround myself with men who make me look lame!
We ditched that bar for lack of ladies and also the stink of those guys was all over us. Unfortunately, they had really broken our mood and I was no longer in my talkative state from Day Game. We bounced to a few different venues with no success. It was surprisingly dead for a Saturday night. We finally hit up this heavy metal kinda joint to see what was going on. The crowd was early 20s and alright. A lot of really lame dudes who photocopied each others ourfits and personalities. There was some stress between me and my wing at this point. Everytime I was about to open a set, he would give me a reason not to. Because we are both beginners we both have a lot of approach anxiety and he was bleeding into me. I talk myself out of enough sets. It was enough to really get to me. And even after I said something....When I saw a lovely 2set to open, he goes they have a guy with them. And I was like godam dude why are you telling me that? He was like I'm just warning you. When I am sarging solo I don't have that. I brought it up again that it has to stop and I think that it will, hopefully. He is just saying what was in his head when he hesitated to approach the set. We need to work more on just splitting up and meeting once we're in set. Anyways, he opened up a nice 2set on his own. A redhead and a brunette. I love brunettes for a fact. I was wandering around opening some sets with middling success. We went to the other part of the bar for a while, to see if there were other sets to be seen while the girls went smoking. Then the upstairs was too full and they wouldn't let us up for half an hour! When we got back up there, my wing brought me into set with him when he re-opened them. He quickly whispered to me which girl was his target, but I couldn't hear him. And their names rhymed!!!! I assumed it was the redhead because he was talking to her a lot, so I started really working the brunette. At first I stumbled a lot, as winging is as new to me as the rest of this and I almost ran bestfriendstest. I stopped in the middle and remembered not to run routines as a wing. Plus he's run a similar one anyways. So we both isolated which was really good. I did a really good palm reading on the girl. She was really into spiritual stuff so it was quite strong to do. I developed some strong kino, as this is my current project. Things went really well. Then the other two came back from the bar with drinks for me and my girl. It was cool that the HB bought the drinks. Then the girls switched on us and the redhead was all over me. I suddenly thought, CRAP! I am working the wrong girl. My wing must like the brunette. So I start talking to the redhead and start using some strong Cajun material and I am building attraction with this girl. Mostly, I am using the material to false-disqualify becuase I am unsure which girl I am supposed to be distracting. Then my wing takes the redhead outside to smoke. I do some kino escalation with HBrunette to the point of some hugging material and seeking IOIs. I make her qualify herself a lot to even things out and it's going pretty well. Anyways both girls went to the bathroom at this point and I finally found out for sure that the redhead was my wing's target. I was pretty glad since I really liked the skinny HBrunette.
They decided to punish us for leaving them so long earlier and just ran off when we weren't looking. We just didn't stress too much. My wing got overly AFC at this point. Like I kept saying we cannot stay here we need to move after 5 minutes because it looks so weak. Even tho we were having a great conversation and just comparing notes on our work. Finally I got him to walk towards the dancefloor. Just in time too. It had been twenty minutes and the girls walked past us right then and I could tell by the looks on their faces that they had been shit testing us! We didn't turn around to follow them and they were upon us on the dance floor within 3 minutes. Things were cool but I couldn't get into the right position. I was stuck next to the redhead. I tried to dance around her but she was moving parallel to me. Unfortunately, my wing wouldn't let me around either. He was missing all of my signals. Dancing for me is a major DHV, since I am one of the rare guys who can do it well. I don't wanna use it on his girl and mess up the set for both of us. Anyways we danced for like twenty minutes. Later on they disappeared again. My wing opened a lovely blond and I totally ruined a 1set. It was funny, so I will not keep it a secret. I walk over to this girl who is HBsmoking hot and I am trying to think of a good situational opener. I stand near her and start a text facing slightly away from her. This drunk AFC falls right onto me. I immediately open her with why do people fall so much around here? I tried talking to her for a minute. She was nodding a little but she didn't say any words. So I said can you talk? And said should I use sign language? She literally ran out of the bar. She was already looking down when I had walked over to be fair. But that is one of the worst things that can happen when you open someone I think. So now it can't get any worse. I mean I definitely went in the wrong tack, but why cry over spilled milk. Next time I will just stack openers!
When I came back my wing was just finishing up in his new set. The girl basically demanded a drink off of him. When he declined she got super embarassed and the set basically died. I wasn't there but I don't think that should have happened. Anyways the two girls found us again just as we were leaving. We danced some more. Yet again I ended up near the redhead. I felt isolated from the brunette which annoyed me. So I tried to dance past the redhead, but like I danced with her. And I dunno. But it got all messed up. We finally left and my wing was wicked mad at me for that! I realize looking back on all the mistakes I made as a wing. I read Mystery's wing rules and I am really working on memorizing them. I have learned how to better DHV my wing. So it was all really cool. But I definitely don't wanna make a mistake like that again.
But please remember that my palm reading went really well and the girl developed a lot of attraction off of it!

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Hearts and Palms

We went to Starbucks on Saturday to recover from our big night of Uni sarging. We get there and this couple is just staring at us. I have been studying a lot of what Cajun says about body language lately and really trying to tighten up that part of my game. I was fixing my main piece of flair, a flashing heart that needed a new battery. I couldn't get it right for some reason, so my wing had to fix it. This couple was just watching up a storm. I was telling him how I loved their confidence. They were making eye contact with everyone in the room and not caring, mainly because they were old and long time married you know?
So once I got my fixed heart back the woman walked over and opened me. She asked me all about the heart and was really interested in it. I was so enthralled by her technique. I mean it's the strongest I have been opened in ages. She controlled the conversation and had confident body language. Because she just didn't care. I think people really develop it when they have been married for ages. It's like you don't have to worry about some stuff because you have a strong element of the permanent in your life.
Anyways, we then went by this really eclectic store that seems to sell lots of crystals and mood rings. The shop girl was cute, so I opened the whole store by asking for a palm reading training glove. Turns out they really exist!!! I end up talking to her and her boyfriend and the other shop people for a while. Then this one lady took such a liking to me that she taught me a TON of palm reading techniques. I have been using them all week with great success. She taught me like three levels from the most basic to rather advanced. It was great to see a cold reading master. I tried a lot of techniques on her to see how she responded. When she was reading my wing's hand and he resisted I twisted her reading to fit his life. Because I know that happens a lot and then I tried asking her really hard things. I asked her to look at our palms and tell which one of us is a twin. What a challenge. I think she should have known it's not me because I am the one who asked her, but she just deflty pulled away from it. It was a great experience and I left there just feeling really nice and mellow inside. I think that is what can be good about the routine. I would never give anyone a negative reading, because I don't believe it's real at all. But I think it's ok to make people feel nice inside. When I got home I spent more time studying the routine from material on the forums and mixing it with the Kenton Completely Cold material. He is a real genius. When we went out that night I did a proper read on a girl and it was really successful. It is great to DHV and really establish kino. I was also just so proud that I got a free lesson from a woman who makes a living charging for palm readings etc. She also does numerology and some other ones. I might try and learn those as well. Fill my pocket with skillz skillz and more skillz.

Spinning Records

I've gotten almost a week behind on this again, so my memory is probably not totally perfect, but I'll do my best. Last friday I had a dj gig at the student union at the university. It was kinda lame as the room they booked me in had no people in it all night. Now I kinda know the deal as far as that .....but it was a great opportunity for some sarging.
I had my wing with me and it was killer. So many girls under 20. At first I was really overwhelmed bc I really go for girls a few years older. I just like the early 20s vibe. I'm 27 myself. Anyways, it took me a long time to get my groove and I found it impossible to open sets on the dance floor. I know me and my wing were both trying the drug dealer opener to practice our kino, with moderate affect. The first girl I opened just said yes and basically turned her back on me. Then I tried using the oh my god opener on a girl, but I was so stilted that my body language killed it. My wing said he wished he had filmed it, because I did it so poorly.
Then we had an idea for a team opener we wanted to try out. We started taking pictures of each other and then getting cute girls to take a pic of us and then saying it was wrong and wrong and then getting her friend to do it. We opened one set really well this way and we were both in set for about 40 minutes with these two girls. I did my first palm reading ever and just made up everything (I have since learned how to do it for real..) and I even told one girl she had an international line crossing her love line and they both loved that.... We tried the camera routine on a few other girls and it went Pete Tong. A lot of them were too drunk to communicate on any level. Then he opened one girl with his patented I look like Moby opener. And he was in set for about ten minutes, but right as he brought me into the set because one of the girls was Canadian, his target's boyfriend showed up and blew us outa set. By making out with his girlfriend. This has got to be the best way to AMOG ever. ahahah.
Then my wing was convinced that one girl he heard was American, so I walked up to her a while later and said wow you look so American. She was from Hong Kong. It was hilarious. I stayed in my frame and facebook closed even while her friends dragged her away. She told me without me even asking.
I think those are the main sets of the night. A few other things happened where we just struggled to open. We had never been there before so it was really weird. Even tho I am a student, it just doesn't feel natural to me. Next time I will bring one of my new pivots to help.

Friday, February 1, 2008

Crazy Thursday

So tonight I thought I was out for a quick one....to try and get the number off my friends friends gf. She is in love with her friend and wants to break them up. I was like that is dark....but I am ready to try the TDBFdestroyer. I was studying up today. In the end those 2 couldn't even come out. So I got these 2 girls to bounce with me to a trendier bar. I made sure we got seated right next to a set of really sexy brunettes. The girl I'm with gets the request list from this dude playing guitar for the pub and puts on a bunch of requests. I am gonna use it as my opener. But when she finished she won't hand it to me and just runs up to give it back. I was like fuck!!! She totally screwed my original mojo. So I got massive AA. My pulse doubled, I started sweating....i get so many physical AA signs it's unreal. Lucky me. It's why i need to stick to the 3second rule just for my health. Anyways my friend fucked my mojo, but that's no excuse. I kept chickening out but then I heard the girls talking about American something. So i spun around and opened on that. I chatted to all three girls for a while and it was kinda smooth. I number closed one girl. Then later they had to run to catch their train. I texted them like 30 after they left...hope you caught the train and don't hate all Americans now. It's 2am now and no reply yet. This is my current problem. But to be fair it's way better than my problem of living on the Internet with no women in my life at all a month ago!!!!
Then I bounced the 2 girls to an after-hours bar. It was wicked. The bartender girl opened me and was wicked friendly. I have started using a lot of accent-based material to great success. I hang there a lot and I didn't close but that one is an open window for later. I chatted to 2 polish girls and later a girl from the middle east. I was really smooth in some ways. No more closes but some fun conversations. It is really hard to control the frame when there are just huge groups of guys surrounding me. The HBMiddle East shit-tested me and I walked right into it. She asked me to remember her name and then said she loves asking people this. I thought I had it right but I was a little off. We chatted a lil more then she went home or something bc I never saw her again. She did say lovely to meet me hopes to see me again. So not a terrible result. I drank a lot tonight. She was my last set. I should have re-framed and made her guess my last name which I hadn't told her. Sigh. Practice Practice. It was hilarious, I opened her and the girl next to her with Can you believe we still have weather? I had a lovely time and my social proof is up and up constantly. I still failed to open at least one set that I wanted to. But I'm doing better.

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