Army of Wings

I posted about this on the Lounge, but I was out wed night with a female wing and I cracked open some sets in a bar I've always been afraid to open in. It really is all in my head. Once sam said it was his favorite place to sarge it changed my whole perspective. I cracked open some sets there with really natural openers. Two girls sat on the couch opposite us. A guy took a chair off the girls next to us etc. I was really just doing my warm up sets, but I ended up staying in set with this 2set for hours. I totally messed up tho. I ended up building attraction with the wrong girl! After a couple of hours an army of low value men attacked. 6 losers were backing up their one friend and I was just overwhelmed. I wasn't high energy anymore as I was deep in comfort post number close. Unfortunately, the girls were really dumb and I lost them to distraction tactics. It won't happen again. I will just blow them out faster instead of letting them do their thing. I am really at phase where I don't care. The feeling that allows me to open a ton of sets kinda puts me in a state of non-reactice to this sort of thing right now. My game is constantly improving. I am still in a place where I really need to work on attraction.... I got the girls' numbers and a facebook close, but both went cold! How lame is that! Oh well.
The first 2set that I opened left while I was working the 2nd one. But! I ran into the cute one last night. She recognized me and we chatted a bit. But she left again last night before I could really close. Shame. But last night I did open a wicked 2set of girls. They were so funny. I was like how do you guys know each other and they were like we are partners. So I asked if they were cops. They loved it. We chatted for a while and it was pretty cool. I will probably see them out again. They thought I was gay at first too, but then they said how that must be powerful mojo that gets me in under a lot of radars. The secret is that I need to mention my sexuality once I have been in-set for a few minutes I think. I have sooo much to work on, but at least I keep meeting super cool people.

Gym Warrior

I know I said I would mention my workout/weight status in every blog but I keep forgetting. I'm still hitting the gym a lot. My weigh is fluctuating right around 98kg. I had the flu for about 10 days so I missed the gym. I have been yesterday and today. I feel a ton better. Just so electric after some time in the gym. I felt like the girl working there was really checking me out too. I got a few smiles. I know some guys are super into gym game, but I'm not at that level yet. I go to the gym to really focus. I am really hitting some goals though. I am about 20% stronger than when I started. Now I'm hitting the real pain barrier in my lifts. It feels really good tho...I really need to adjust my diet more and I'm starting to work on that. No more soda, just water and juice for me. I'm trying to increase my vegetable intake a lot too. I think inner game is crucial and going to the gym dramatically alters my inner game. It's great!

Golden Mirror

So I was just testing out some social circle game on a friend of my housemate and this girl was talking about a bad date and men not understanding women. I took the opportunity to talk a little about how most men don't understand women yada yada and I talked a little bit about social dynamics. She was talking about bf stuff and how to tell if a guy would be a good one and I dropped about 10 seconds of golden mirror. She just melted. I cut it off and said that's what I would say if I were into you. It was like playing with plutonium. I mean I dig on this girl but I could feel it affecting me too. That stuff is no joke! So take all the warnings seriously. Do not run deep comfort unless you are ready to change your life. I am still in awe of the power of deep comfort right now...my mind just wandered off.

Textual Calibration

So I had a date tonight booked with my HBHenParty from sat. I had solid text game and secured the date. But I really didn't care one way or the other. When she called me last nite to finalize the plans I had mixed feelings. Anyways, today I tried out some different text frame to learn about calibration and which frame is the most powerful. When I sexualized the texts she withdrew and when I accused her of trying to seduce me she pulled forward. I kept trying out different things and eventually broke the line. But I realized that it's important to learn about calibration with the ones we don't care about. I really shouldn't be going out of town tonight anyways for money reasons and I need to finish some coursework for college. But the lesson is very important, don't use text game to sexualize. Save that for in-person. Since there is no kino, sexual escalation seems creepy and weird. Touch is a crucial component to sexualizing any encounter. Maintain a defensive playful funny frame on the phone. My game is so much tighter with what I've learned today. Keep on trucking. I will go out tonight and open a few sets just to keep alive. But I think it's important to focus on callback humor and make anything sexual seem like an accident!

Day2 and other issues

So it turns out my number close from saturday at BC was wicked strong. I just kept texting the way the Don taught me and it's wicked powerful. I just totally kept up the same frame from my initial interaction. His one hour chat brought my phone game to life! I just kept up the playful banter and totally ignored her frame. I kept accusing her of trying to seduce me. She finally broke down and asked me out. We are meeting in London, but at the station closest to my house. She even called me to secure the date after 60 or so texts. I am going to close tonight if I don't fuck it up. So I will try not to fuck it up with HBHenParty. I will post a pic on the Lounge later after my LR.
Anyways, I really want to talk about last nite. I was out with my housemate and I ran into a girl I know and her younger sis. I really worked on building up massive kino and attraction with the younger sis. I wasn't able to kclose, but the girl was super young and out with her big sis. I did have her grabbing my ass and whatknot. It was pretty wicked to see how powerful my attraction game has begun.
But the real point of this blog is that I let AA and laziness fuck up my game last nite. There were two HBrunettes in the venue last night that were exaclty my type. I didn't approach. I got into my own head. I was giving myself the bird in the hand crap.....Anyways, I need to create a negative social value for when I refuse to approach or let AA get into my head. So everytime I shame myself I will post it on here. It's my punishment. I want this blog to make me look awesome so now I have a motivator TO approach. Just like when I was out with the guys this weekend. I cared more about their opinions of me than I did about the girl's opinions. Now my game is really becoming rock solid. If I can get through the first 15 seconds I think I can break open any set. I just needed to do some practice sets last nite. I am going to try and get blown out by a warm up set every night from now on!

BootCamp Review

Sorry I haven't blogged in 2 weeks. Been busy living. Some strange things have gone on. I really need to develop my Social Circle Game. Se La Vi. Anyways I got a surprise last minute invite to a London bootcamp. It was wicked. Here is my review.

This bootcamp was amazing overall. I will start off with the negatives as that will be my shortest section.

Things to Improve-
Need more/different venues to work at- there was a RSD (real social dynamics) bootcamp at the same venue as us both nights
more clear instructor assignment- i missed the first day lectures and just met up in time for infield, i kept getting passed between instructors and so didn't get as much time in set as i would have liked
lecture calibration - the lectures were really targeted towards beginners on days1/2, as someone who is a little past that level I would have liked to spend more time on the material we covered on day 3 in more depth (but that is covered at other more advanced trainings...)
better women- everyone was opening women, but I didn't see the instructors open a girl I found amazing, I would really have liked to see that. But that's mostly the clubs fault anyways

That is all the negative things I could think of and really they almost don't matter at all compared to my overall experience. All of the instructors were really kind and spent time talking to me. They really moved my confidence up a level.

The lectures -
The Don - His lectures on attraction and comfort were wicked. I went into this bootcamp with attraction my main area of weakness. He just put together the one piece missing from my jigsaw puzzle and made it seem so natural. I have been the king of dead phone numbers until now. Right after his lecture I got my strongest number close in 3 months. He is very funny and casual. It really helps that he is not super good looking, as most of the other London instructors are. I never felt like I was sitting in class and his sense of humor is very congruent with mine. I feel like I could tell the same kind of jokes and use the same frame with great success.
Mr M - This guy is amazing. I had a pre-conception about him based on reading DaHunter's blog, but I wasn't even close. This guy just pours out knowledge in a way that is really easy to understand. I jumped from beginner to intermediate just by being near him. I told him my biggest issue is Social Circle Game and he just poured info into my for 30 minutes. It was amazing. He is preparing a seminar on just this subject and I absolutely recommend it. His talks made the time fly by. Usually in class I'm not begging the clock to slow down. This guy is a legend.
Soul- His talks on day game direct game were unreal. He is a master of his arts. He only had time to show us the tip of the iceberg, but I recommend spending time with him. If you can get a 1on1 with this guy or get to one of his upcoming seminars on day/direct game just do it.

The Instuctors - on a personal level (the ones I worked with)
The Don - This guy is really nice and easy to be around. As someone who has spent too much time on the forums and reading I thought it would be strange to be around a guy who is pretty famous. He has a really strong don't-give-a-damn attitude that fills the dudes around him with confidence. We didn't do any sets together but just chatting to him was really natural. He felt like a guy I would hang out with if I lived in LA again.
Mr M - I cannot say enough about this guy. He is like a super nice brave mad scientist of game knowledge. He really knows his stuff and will bend your ear for hours on any subject you ask him about. This guy makes you feel like his friend and he will do anything you ask him to in the field. I asked him to get blown out of a set really hard just to see what it looks like and he turned around and did it. I always just get a back turn when I'm blown out but he got yelled at. It didn't affect his frame at all. I really saw how to get blown out and not care as you come back to your friends. He spent every minute between lectures sharing knowledge and even stayed in the club hours after the session was supposed to have ended. He has a really good sense of humor and is an amazingly nice guy.
Soul - We only worked together for a short time, but this is one really nice guy. He is honest and direct and being around him will up your social prowess. He really knows his game and loves to teach. You never feel like a student in-field, just a friend. He will go in-set with you and jump on any grenades to help you. He makes it all feel natural.
Vercetti- This guy is new on the scene but he blew it up. I worked with him the most and I just felt like I was in the club with my best mate as we blew open set after set. The first night I has massive AA and he just sent me into a really scary set of cougars and ordered me to get blown out. And I did. After that my confidence was through the roof. I felt so comfortable. With him as my wing I Kclosed within 2 minutes of walking into the club the 2nd night. He has a really positive energy and if you are around him you just absorb it. He is natural and comfortable with himself. And a really good model for how to feel inside yourself. This guy might be new to Mr M's team but pretty soon everyone is gonna be clamoring for 1on1s with him so I recommend getting time with him now. His club game is carved out of wood.
Sam- I worked with Sam a lot as well. His first question was what are my weaknesses. I told him I was afraid of mixed and seated sets. Ten seconds later I was in one that lasted a good 10 minutes. It went so well some of the other students thought I was an instructor. This guy is really solid. He is normal looking, but his game is strong as hell. He just seems like a casual normal dude but his game is so strong. He really shows how powerful game is. He is a really cool dude and opened so many doors for me. He threw me into sets I would have been afraid to open I got my strongest number close ever off of a hen party I went into with him.
Leon - I only spent a few minutes with him when I first arrived at the club on the first night. This guy has really tight game and he comes off as sincere and sweet. He is a really skilled magician and a nice guy. If magic is part of your game I definitely recommend spending time with this man. I wish there were more hours in the field so I could have seen more of him in action
The others - They were all amazing, but I didn't spend time in set with them. There just isn't enough time in the club to work with everyone. I recommend finding the guys you click with the best and working with them. That is what I did with great success. I would have loved to spend time with every single guy that I met this weekend. They are all solid and I can see why Mr M chose them all. He is a really nice guy and surrounds himself with the same high caliber kinds of people.

InTheField-
I missed the Day1 instruction so I didn't know anyone as I struggled to find the club Friday night. I was full of nervous energy when I got to the club and struggled to find the guys. Mr M sent me a ton of texts to help me find the group. 5 minutes after I got to them I felt I had known them for ages. Vercetti blew my AA away by sending me into a set of cougars with the intention of getting blown out. Sam got me into my first seated set. It was the first time I had a mixed set, used a false time constraint correctly, worked a group, dealt with an AMOG and ran out of things to say. I was so focused on doing all the things Sam had told me to that when I unexpectedly got through them all, I forgot my later game. I felt really confident after working with these guys. It was also really nice just to talk to all of them on specific issued in-between sets.
The Second night I got into the club early and ran into Vercetti. We went to see if any of the other guys were there and bumped in a a 3set of high energy girls. We really worked on advanced game with them as it was all shit-tests and off script. We walked around the club with these girls and I kclosed the cutest one right in front of mr M at the front door. It was hilarious and great social proof. I opened a seated, scary 4set later with Sam and got an amazing number close. Just listening to the advice from the instructors will change your game soooooooo much instantly. I went from a guy with no-kino to a master in one night. I feel so comfortable touching people now that it's just part of who I am. I had my final close of the night working with Mr M. I felt like there were no more girls I was attracted to around, but he convinced me to try one last time. Right as I was about to open this really cute girl, in front of Mr M himself, she puked all over me. It was a real opportunity to work on my skills at being unaffected. Unfortunately, it broke my frame and I didn't open any more sets after that, but Mr M said it was ok to let something that major break my frame. He thought it was hilarious as did everyone else. I now know that nobody will ever forget me in the scene.

Overall experience/Was it worth it?
The experience totally depends on you! I went in with the attitude of doing whatever they told me too. It overwhelmed my normal AA/fear. It was great. Am I a master after one weekend? Of course not. But I am a lot better and I am full of new potential. I will spend the next 2 months really pushing and using what they taught me to bring my game to a new level. I feel like a bootcamp takes about 6-10 months of learning on my own and puts it into one weekend. I see so much more of the Matrix now. These guys are all nice friendly and knowledgeable. They will do anything you ask to improve your game. They cover direct and indirect, however you want it. They were so proud of all of our successes. I definitely recomend working with Mr M if you want to develop your skills. His whole team is filled with sound guys.

I 100% recommend this bootcamp. And remember I was the guy that got puked on in-set.

Who Can You Trust

After my crazy disco night Friday, I was in a powerful state when I went out Saturday night. I went out with a couple of friends to a posh bar at first, but the heat was cranked all the way to the ceiling. I could already feel myself sweating before I got to the bar. I have worked this venue before with my wing, but I was not feeling it. Like a reptile, extreme temperatures make me lethargic. I am not an all-weather pua. Sorry. But thats' where I am at now. Maybe I should do some extreme weather game-training? Maybe next winter....
Anyways, I went to my usual bar to meet up with one of my power couple friends. I think I will talk about them a little, since I go out with them almost every week. The girl is a super tall and cute redhead and the guy is a super muscly rugby-playing insurance broker. They know basically everybody in the clubs and they love me. She got me a massive DJ gig this weekend. Anyways, she knows like every really big man in town. All the amogs that normally would be a worry you know? So while I have been working on other projects, I have talked to tons of these guys. I know the owner of my favorite club too. It's really good social proof to have a giant gorilla of a man throw me love. At least it makes me feel good and that's crucial anyways. The other week I was out with these two and I told the girl I was gonna take the night off from girls and she just said why? are you a pussy? Holy crap. It's not usual to get a kick in the balls from a girl, but it was a good point.
So I am at the club with these two and another girl. The same girl I didn't mention from Friday night. All she does is drink tap water and hate on me. I tried to be friendly with her and even progressed to the 5questions game, but when she lost she just said I never bet! I really can't be bothered with liars. For me that is a major part of qualification. I even have a loyalty tattoo. So already I have no desire to ever see the girl again, but guess what, she works at my gym! HA! I live a life filled with irony. Anyways, while all three of them walk away from the table a girl I know that is in love with me sees me and runs over. She sent me a weird jokey email earlier in the day that kinda annoyed me so she came over to see if i was mad. Basically, she joked about being mad in her email and totally fooled me. I mean if I can't take, why the hell do I dish it?
So her and another 18year old girl join me. They have two boys with them. Within 10 minutes they are all loving me and worshiping my flare. It's pretty awesome. They all seemed pretty cool and were talking about going to Flares for a birthday party. Now you know me, I love that joint after what happened last night! But then who comes walking up to the table, but a smoking blond bartender having a birthday party on her night off. I read her palm on Thursday and she loved it. She even told me that it made her day. She brings me upstairs and has me read 3 girls palms. Two are married and one is hoping to marry her boyfriend. I really dont wanna be trapped in a corner doing this, but I think it's ok to make people feel nice. Maybe I need that trained out of me, I'm not sure yet. Anyways, they buy me a drink for my troubles and later on I meet one of their husbands and talk to him for like 20 minutes. I got trapped in set with him. I can't even remember what we talked about but he was a really nice dude and they were all lovely when they left earlier. I definitely want to get better at that, because I want to talk to husbands as soon as I find out. To make it more natural. Plus that's a line I won't cross.
Anyways, I end up meeting tons of cool people and then word of my skills gets out. Five guys have me read their palms in the corner. One obviously gay guy couldn't believe how I knew he would never father children. He was just laughing and playing along and having a good time. All of them were impressed with my cold reads. I did one that was so good I almost believed in my own powers. How scary is that. I'm mostly over it now. I can't recommend Completely Cold enough. It's the best book on cold reading ever.
Then I run into one of the town naturals. This guy is banging so many girls it's unbelievable. He has like no career prospects and is a musician with no band who can't sing. And yet he brings it home. Just goes to show. It's all about communication. He tells me he cut it all off with this girl HBginger. She was really cute and I am a little surprised, but he wants a new girl every week. He then mentions again that he wants to facebook the girl i fclosed at the birthday party. So I ask him if i can go after HBGinger. He says sure. I go back inside and actually run into her. I ahvent' seen the girl in like a month at least. Her and her friend are loving me. I work them hard and run some cool routines. We are having a laugh and snap some pictures. Then my friend comes in and can't believe the girl he just dumped is there. And standing near us is the girl he took out on dates earlier in the week, with her ex. So my friends just shoves me out of the set and goes after HBginger. He went from no interest to massive interest when he saw me. He was also using her to trigger a jealousy plotline with the other girl. All very interesting. I watched al ot of the social dynamics. I got a lot of strong feedback from HBginger later and her friend. She even told me she can't believe the parade of beautiful women across my facebook pages and asked if I could put a pic of us up as my profile. So she could be seen as a beautiful woman. Very interesting. In the end, she left for another drink at a pub with my friend and I went off to a party......
I get my other friends party and they are all so wrecked....but I meet my friends girlfriend. He asks me tons about dj stuff and I tell him that he can guest on my radio show anytime. Then I talk to her and she is hilarious. She is in acting school and gets me to promise to come to her next show in a few months. I definitely want to meet other acting girls. I know they live near me because I have seen them walking by a few times lately. In fact she spotted me through the window today and shouted that she was stalking me. It was great social proof to a crowded street. yada yada. That is the gist. I have pictures of me with 5 new babes on facebook and I feel super cool.

The main thing I learned this night is that girls really pay attention to facebook and social proof. The other thing I learned is that my friend is a dick. He actually told me that HBginger was out of my league. I am not that into her at all so I'm glad I threw me little test at him now. It sucks how many guys around here steal girls from each other. Now I just want to be the best....

Disco Fever

So I went out tonight and like a total AFC, I went to a club specifically hoping to run into HBFrench. How lame am I? It gets worse. All night I kept roving my eyes over the crowd hoping to see her. The thing is, in real life I am higher value than her, but real life means nothing with emotions. She is moving back to France in like 2 weeks. I can't wait. I was in this super agitated state and not opening sets for like ages. Finally, I texted my wing and was like I gotta break this terrible frame now! It was so hard, but I saw a cute brunette with a nice bob. She was Spanish I think.... Anyways, I see her hit the smoking section so I head over to make my move. As per usual, I get distracted and open a semi-cute blond and talk to her for maybe 15mins. Things are going alright until I realize I am not attracted to the girl at all. I just don't like blonds, I can't help it! It's my fate. Anyways, I go back inside and I am fighting my way through the crowd and the Spanish girl is right behind me!
I start chatting to her as it is super natural to speak in this type of situation. Anyways, after we get through the crowd, I walk away with the intention of reopening. I actually needed the bathroom. Anyways, I go back outside and borrow another cigarette (maybe you've notice by now but I don't actually smoke). I am sitting there waiting for HBSpanish to come outside for another smoke, but after 30 mins I see nothing is happening. I go inside and see that she and her friend are cornered by some dude. She is throwing him iois, even though he seems to be working her friend. Anyways, I know that this was 100percent my fault. I need to stop walking away from sets for no reason. I should have just kept talking to her when I had her. Lesson learned. I could see my state was not going to get any better and there were no other girls there calling my name, so I went off to meet my house mate and some others in Flares, the disco club.... Oh ya, I just noticed that I'd already blogged about Friday this weekend.....tells you a little about how much drinky i gotty....anyways.
The lesson for this blog is that you have to break out of bad states. Don't get one-itis and maybe avoid girls that remind you of your one-itis? But the main thing is that there is no reason to hesitate. I lost a lovely set just because I thought I could reopen later. Some other dude came in and snapped it up. I wanna be that dude! PEaCe

One-itis to jedi

It's funny how things have a way of happening when we're not ready for them. I have just started to get a little bit of skill in this game. But every step forward runs me into a wall. I just can't close the way I want to. I met the first high-value girl that I would like to actually date. I mean she is hitting all of my attraction switches. HBFrench looks exaclty like my big one-itis but 10% hotter. The problem is that my frame is not strong enough to endure this level of testing yet. I have been developing the new me for only 2 months now. I think it will take me 2 years to become a master.
I expect at the 6month mark to be really impressive though.
So far I am hitting a lot of my goals. But this girl. She reminds me of my oneitis so much that I basically fall into AFC body language without thinking. I am pretty sure I have totally blown it with this girl. Which I actually think is good. I don't just want to be with the same girl who broke me before. I'm really not sure. But it's a telling lesson. I actually talked to my pop about this one and he threw some wisdom at me. Do I really wanna date a girl who is just like a girl who was bad for me? Sometimes we are attracted to things that are so bad for us. It's why so many people are in negative relationships. Anyways, I won't go into a lot of boring detail, but there is nothing I can do to get this girl to meet me again. She just wants to talk to me on msn and nothing more. She is moving back to France in 3 weeks. It will be so good, because then I will stop hoping to run into her. I don't need to be pushed back into being and afc! I am so weak that she just popped up on msn and I couldn;t resist messenging her. She just blew me off and said she's gotta go fast. See you get to be part of my life while it's happening. And last night when I went out, I kept hoping that she would show up. I was in a highly agitated state and everyone could read it off me.
I saw one really cute foreign brunette with short hair, cha-ching, and I even did a little opener with her, but instead of pushing the conversation flow like my hero Cajun, I let her go with a plan to reopen when she came for a smoke. After ages I went back inside and saw some generic afc dude chatting her and her mate up. My own fault for not pushing my agenda. Anyways, that got me out of my boring state. I realized that it was too late for HBFrench to show up and I needed to change venues big time! So I texted all my mates. Found out a few were at Flares, this cheesy place that just plays 70s music. I have never been on a busy night before. Only went once on a dead Tuesday with my usual wing and it was empty. The joint was packed last night and I got opened by probably 10 girls. I wasn't totally focused. It was my first time really gaming in a place with no sound. I was rocking some killer flashing flair which helped a LOT. Two smoking 18year old blond twins basically attacked me. It was wicked, of course yet again all my friends being AFCs came up. No one could back me up. I gave one my camera to take pictures and when the first one didn't come out he just tried to hand it back. I was like take one til you get a good one. He only got a pic of me with one of the girls, not both. I am pretty annoyed about that. I mean I didn't realize anyone was that stupid. He was like I didn't want to waste film. My camera is digital and can take 1000 photos in a night. It never runs out. That is the whole point. Oh well, I got a pic with the cuter one. Basically, all night I kept getting opened by cute girls. I didn't really pursue it. I was just all distracted by the power of my body language. It's really great. The best shot I had that I lost by not pushing maybe 10% harder was this really cute black girl that I had an entire silent conversation with over the dance floor.Oh well. I will definitely be back at that venue with a legitimate wing when I can. Anyways, when I left the club I felt like a jedi. Girls that me and my wing have opened in the last months came up to me and recognized me even when I didn't recognize them. I need to work on a Name Memorizing tool seriously.
I went to the gym again today. They have this machine called a Powerplate that shakes you. It's supposed to be 90minutes of workout in 15 minutes. I believe it. I used it yesterday a little and today a lot. I have just added it to my routine at the gym. It's only about an extra 10 minutes right now, but I feel a massive difference in all my muscles. It just shakes the energy out of me. Also I weighed in at 97.7kg today. It's 2.3 kilos less than when I started. I would like to be below 95 kilos at the end of March and 90 kilos at the end of April. I am trying to be realistic and healthy with my goals. I definitely see a different body in the mirror already. I think it's a combination of success and a stronger self-image. It's really good. I think that when my stomach gets a little flatter my game will explode. I know that weight doesn't' matter, but it is a hurdle in my opinion. I can either overcome it with stronger game or with exercise. Why not do both? I think it all matters. Also I have some really good dj gigs starting to come up, these will help me with local status even more. I am trying to really master Las Vegas. Well this post has gotten kinda long. The point is that even though I am going through one-itis issues with HBFrench, I am learning to break the cycle in other areas and still talk to lots of other girls.

The Wax Museum

I struggled to sleep after such a crazy night. I was on such a high doing so well with two high value beauties, HBFrench and HBGerman. I finally got to sleep at 5am. I felt so cool. I woke up at like 10 and I couldn't believe it. I wanted to at least sleep til noon. I was lying in bed deciding if I should clean on the chance that the girls come by the house, or just try and get back to sleep. When the phone rings and it's HBFrench. She even asks if I know who it is and if I remember her. All great signs of her interest in me. She sets up a meet with me in London at 1240. We will probably even be on the same train.
I quickly jump out bed and start cleaning. I even run up to the gym and get in a good 30 minutes of cardio. I run back and do a quick shower and bathroom routine. I almost puked when I got into the bathroom tho. One of my housemates is so foul. The bottom of the shower is always so gross after him. I almost stepped in it in my hurry. I had to do a quick bathroom clean before my train as well. It wasn't as good as I would like, but I just hadn't realized he destroyed it for me Friday night. Anyways, back to the good part.
I get on the train and just listen to my tunes. I don't even look for the girls on the train. I meet them at the station in London and they are pretty sure we were on the same train. They are lovely and both double cheek kiss me. We take the tube to the museum and just had a great time. We had to wait an hour to get in, but it felt like 10 minutes. We took tons of photos all day. In the end over 250. It was great. They loved the museum and I was their paparazzi most of the day. They took all the photos of me I wanted. It was such a fun time. I ran a lot of routines on both of them, but primarily HBFrench. She is my main target. Yet again I had a problem of isolation. It was all three of us all day. What a new and strange problem for me. There were only 2 times where we had moderate isolation.
There is a little part where you ride a car through the history of London. They only seat 2 to a car, so I made sure I was with the French girl. I set it up way early in the line, so I think they didn't notice until the end. I even complained that surely three could fit in one car! We put the audio into French in the little car. There was a little arm locking and friendliness between us, but of course the other girl could see us, so we kept waving to her and yelling and stuff. To keep her included. I felt some light attraction for sure. The second time we had some isolation, we were going through the scary part where people chase you around. I held the French girl's hand and did my squeeze test. She squeezed back, but it could have been a fear squeeze or to assure me. Of course I will assume that it was an IOI, safer that way.
Everything was great when we left the museum. I was on a high, but we were super tired. HBGerman called another German friend and we went to meet her. We had to take several trains, as the Circle line was closed all weekend. The girls were confused and I had to be the leader. We meet up with the friend. There are now 3Germans, 1French, and 1American stud. It's great to be surrounded by 4 girls, but it is tough when I am exhausted already you know? I am doing pretty good until the girls decide to go shopping. Now I am in over my head, I won't lie. I have read a little bit on shopping situations, but not nearly enough. We are going around and I make sure to talk to all 4 girls evenly, but we keep going into girl's shops. There are no good men's stores around at all. I finally peel off anyways to go to fcuk but it's terrible inside. All girls clothes again. I am getting bored and I am transmitting it. I think this is a DLV so I wander around for like 5-10 minutes. I get bored in one store with the girls and put my hair up in pigtails. I can hear them laughing, but then when I am not phased it becomes my strength. Anyway, I call some friends in London and I'm gonna go over for dinner. I just for some reason can't open my mouth to tell the girls I'm peeling off. I know I need to to maintain my position, but I just can't. This only lasts for like 5 minutes, but it seems like centuries. Then HBFrench tells me she wants to get outta there. So the three of us decide we are all heading off now. I tell her how I am meeting some other friends for dinner so I am taking a different subway. She doesn't say it but I can see in her eyes that she doesn't like this. She won't say it but she is nervous about trying to figure out the subway on her own. So I offer to take them back to the main station and then split up there. It will make my journey longer, but it always makes her feel safe. She even keeps calling me moses on the trip. When she was leading the way to the museum, that was what she was calling herself. She transferred leadership of the group to me. I also realized that she was almost as bored as me at the mall. Man she is really pretty.
So I get them back to the main station. It's a good thing I did, becuase they probably would have gotten lost. On the train I think HBGerman is grabbing my butt, so I turn and say something. I am just teasing a little, but she starts blushing. It was just her bag hitting my bum. So then I say why are you blushing? And of course she turns super red. Then I say to her, you're so shy that's so cute. And BOOM! She freaks out. Runs up to her friend. Fortunately, HBFrench gives me a reassuring look. I hang back for a few minutes. Things sort out. It's all fine. HBGerman realizes I was sincere and it's all good after a few minutes. HBFrench keeps looking back to check I am behind them on the escalators and everything. So that is a great sign.
It's so late that I decide to just come back too. I am meeting some friends out on the town here, so I just come back. I'm falling asleep on my feet anyways.
On the train back, they sit down facing each other so I will have to sit next to one of them. I put on my mp3s to help me relax. We chat on and off. At one point the HBGerman blows me a kiss when the other girl isn't looking. I am not really sure of everything. We chat about hanging out more and they both are going to listen to my radio show Monday night. So I will say their names. They are really excited about this. I get off at my station and don't look back.
There is a lot to cover in this one. I gotta be more careful about calling a girl shy or sweet when she's blushing. I gotta find a better way to isolate in this kind of situation. I am still learning. Also I have a major problem with HBFrench. She looks like my one-itis, but about 10% prettier. She is also very funny in the same way. Like she is hitting all the same personality attraction switches as my one-itis did. It's a little intense. I think my emotions are mixing. I've only been over my 1itis for 2 months now. So the emotions still exist. I think I am getting attracted to her faster than she is getting attracted to me. I am at least aware of it, so I am controlling it, somewhat. It's the next day now and I'm talking on msn to HBFrench. I am trying to get her to hang out today. She might have plans with a friend. GRrrrrrrr. So I am running the cube on her. We just finished. I will tell her that I have to finish it in person. See where it takes me. Later haTers.

German Game

I went out to support a mate and his band on Thursday and it has been crazy the last three days. I get there with my house mate and there is nobody we know. I joke a lil with the door girl to warm up and then I flirt a lil with the bar girl. Nothing special just seed planting. I haven't really studied hired gun game yet, so I stay away from it at places that I frequent. There are not too many bars in this town. Anyways, There are tons of cute girls at this gig, but most are like 16ish. Fun to look at, and legal in the UK, but seriously I can't imagine dealing with that. Outside I see a girl sitting alone having a smoke so I say hi to her or something, it was really crap. I was really cold. When I'm cold I can't game. Sorry! We go back inside and it turns out she knows my mate's new girlie. So when we go back inside, I have some social proof. Her other German friend shows up and she is stunning. House mate and I go outside to smoke. The German girls come outside and I call my mate's girl over to join us. She has only met me once but I was really friendly. All three girls end up surrounding the two of us. It was really great. I work the whole group. Then four girls I'm just friends with come in and say hi and are really great at the table next to us. Just seed planting.
The girls go back inside and we don't follow. I wait about 5 minutes and we go in to see some bands. I am surrounded by guys and girls who love me. It's a really great vibe all around. The music is pretty good. I am rocking some of my best flare. And getting some love. Yada yada. Back outside with the 2 single German girls. I get my house mate to talk to the one I'm not interested in. With some serious eye-signaling. Like most guys I know, he will talk to both girls when it's 2on2. I really hate that. It's not his fault. Just his natural tendency. At first he thought I wanted him to isolate his girl and go off, but it's way too soon for that. So he starts doing magic and I do a palm reading on the German girl. She is really cute and so sweet. She thought I was teasing her at the end. But when she realized that I know that I'm doing she liked it. Anyways during the course of the night, I felt like I was failing to build attraction so I left with my other friends. Actually leaving seems to be very powerful for me.
I get to this other bar and there are a ton of my friends there. Funny story on the side. One of my close mates is dating a girl that I opened last week with him. I wasn't into her, just practicing. So I get a ton of social proof of this and the fact that her friend loves me. This girl is pretty lame tho. She is not that cute and keeps complaining that no one wants her. At one point I was drunk and flirted a little with her and she totally fucked it up. Her loss. I am so glad. I need to not be stupid like that. The German girls all show up and I chat to them so more. I build a little attraction with the girl I like, but I don't feel a strong thread so I don't get her number. I have a lot of strong kino, hugging and high fives. It's really good. When she leaves right as I am going to get a hug, just to leave a sense of my touch, my friends jumps in the middle and shouts hi and stuff. The girl leaves. Se la vi. Not a big deal. I talk to my friends girlie a lot about some stuff and she promises to help me join German facebook. We chat and I get her number, which I might just use to meet her friends again you know? Totally just normal chat. I'm no into gaming my friends girls.
Friday night. I go out and run into HBLanky. She has walks out of the bathroom and dives at me. She has been dodging my texts all week. On the way out I was like don't mention it don't mention it don't mention it. But in the moment I mention it. She is all apologies and tells me she lost her numbers or her phone and didn't know who it was or something. I dunno. To be honest I'm over her. I like her as a friend. The kiss was interesting. I liked the experience. She is the best connector in that bar. She has tons of cute friends and takes me around to introduce to every cute girl she knows. It's great. I chat my way around the bar and see more and more people I know. Dudes and girls. Then I'm standing by the bar and this 3set of blonds opens me. I know I've seen one before. I just can't remember where. I chat to them for a while. Working all three. But in the end, I'm just not into blonds. I know this is so strange to most guys, but isn't this great for you? A little less competition. I eventually eject from the set and it's really friendly and good. I'm changing bars. I run into my friend from the kiss photo last week and he burns me. I dunno what that's all about. He had been texting with me to meet up all day. Oh ya. I saw the girl that I made cry and she gave me a look of hate earlier. But that is her issue. I didn't say anything mean intentionally and I tried to apologize. There is nothing more I can do right now. So I think he talked to her. And whatever. So I move on to my late night hangout. Which is always full of girls from all over Europe.
I run into some of my mates and just chill with them for a while. Things are a little hazy, but the two single German girls appear later on. I chat to them a ton and it's really great. The cute one tells me all about how she loved my palm reading and told her friends all about it. And then she says hey my friend is right here! She introduces me to her friend. A stunning French girl. Like my dream girl. She looks like my oneitis but prettier and the same hilarious personality. I chat to these girls all night, I lock in, best friends test etc. I build some attraction, but it's impossible to isolate. All of my friends there are jerks tho. I introduce them when they walk by, but they immediately act sleazy. One guy tries to use his back on me! After chatting to me earlier and being my friend. So I got rid of them. I would have loved if one just talked to the German cutie. Anyways, these girls both love me. And my problem is I can't really ratchet up the attraction with the one I like, because the other girl is always there. It's not bad. Every guy in the bar is just staring. They are the two hottest girls in there. No one even tries to approach all night.
It was the greatest. They are really cool and interesting and beautiful. We all leave together and this huge guy is just staring. I just gave him a huge wink. I walk the girls to there car and they have already set up seeing me the next day for a trip to the wax museum in London. I text my wing, but he leaves me in the lurch. I have two stunners and no backup. I know this seems great, but if I can't be alone with the girl I like, I can't really move things forward. Don't get me wrong, just being around them is great, but daddy doesn't want to be an orbiter. I get them to their car and they even drive me home. I was just actually being nice walking them to the car. I think it's ok for guys to do that kinda thin you know?
When I got home I felt so good. Just really smooth and cool. Like strong game is so valuable. Now I have two beautiful women in my life. I will post about our day at the museum soon....The points to focus on right now are how to work a two-set with no help. Deeper social circle game. Memory skills. I can't stress how important a strong memory can be. I memorized everything these girls said and they were both really impressed. My kino was rock solid, so I feel good about that progress....anyways it was a great night.

Down with the Brown

I went out with my house mate the magician and some other mates to see Derren Brown live this week. I have been a fan for ages of this guy so I was really excited to see his show. It was about 400 people, but we were 5th row. It was just the perfect distance to really see everything. It was great to see a master of the mental persuasion arts working it up there. I really learned a lot about frame control. As far as I can tell, he's as good as it gets. And it was really great. His best technique is his memory in my opinion. We met him out back after the gig. And he just remembered every name so well. He even recognizes my house mates voice, which he heard when he read his mind. It was so cool. He makes everyone feel like his friend by just throwing his frame over everyone. Anyways, I thought he was such a nice guy I'm going to see the same show again in May with my whole family. I recommend watching some of his dvds to learn about reading people and mental mastery. Top notch and educational as well.