CHAVy girl

So I am at a local after hours bar last nite. When I get there with my friend there is no action, so we decide to have one drink and skip out. While we are out back having a smoke and chatting to the bouncer my friend knows, two sexy chavy girls walk in. A blond and a sexy brunette. She is lovely. Really talkative, skinny, good body, short brown hair....the whole package for me. The walk up and even say something to the bouncer, but I totally freeze. I couldn't think of anything to say, which is shocking because I have several really good openers I have been using lately. Anyways, eventually they are talking to some chavy dudes and I just decide that it must be their boyfriends, I know super AFC of me right? Anyways, they walk away from those dudes and say they are leaving or something. Me and my mate go inside to use the potty and go home, but those girls are still there. The brunette is sitting by herself texting or something, and I just froze again. I mean I used her text as my excuse, but that is so lame. I text my wing my shame and he is like wtf??? The girls go back outside to smoke and I say to my friend I am gonna wanna die if I let fear keep me from talking to that sexy girl! So we go back out with fresh drinks and I walk right up and open the brunette. I use my accent material, best friends test, favorite country etc. They mentioned leaving again and then the blond was distracted by my friend for me. I got the brunette's number because she is moving to the town my wing lives in. I was like you can show me around. It was about 4-5 minutes into the convo. The blond even shit tested me early on by asking for my glow necklace because it's their last night together. A huge part of me wanted to give it to them, I have 49 more at home, but now I can see the Matrix, or at least part of it.
So I succeeded at my short goal of opening and it was even a smooth transition to a number close. But as important as my little success is, I must also be honest about my mistakes. I didn't do any kino and I didn't talk to the obstacle at all to create interest. When they mentioned the other club they were going to, I should have said WHAT? are you guys listening in to us, we just said we were going there! To control the frame and have them bounce with us. I also should have kept the convo longer. For some reason about 5 mins after number close I said are you guys really leaving? AHAHAHA.....oh well. It showed that I didn't care if they left I think. We actually walked past the other club they went to on our way home (it really is on the way) and there was nobody inside at all! They missed out big time. I am aware enough of the game now to know that we coulda brought those girls home if my material had been a little tighter.
I just texted the girl and mentioned her accent and traveling to south america, the main hooks from last night's convo. I kept it casual so I can still work my moves if I see her again. Will she text me back? I'm not really sure. So far all of my numbers have been flakes. I know that it is a result of my problems in my game. I struggle to control the order of material. I tend to do my DHVs, stories etc in a random order. I need to focus on structure I know it. And I really need to work on timebridging.

In the end I am pleased that I opened and number closed. That is still a success over the me of a month ago.

Day Game

So me and Nomad went out Sunday for day game. He really wants to develop that skill because he wants more quality girls instead of party girls, fair enough. So we go up to starbucks, which I never go to because I don't drink tea or coffee. In line behind is is this sexy brunette. Small and super cute just how I like. So I start talking to Nomad about penguins. And we start arguing and at one point he says that penguins are fish. I know he is just joking, but it's perfect. I turn to the girl behind us in line and say are penguins birds or fish? The girl is wearing an ipod so she has to take her earphones out and I just repeat the question.....And she says what is a penguin? In broken English. I almost start laughing because it's just so funny to me that the first girl I open in day game is someone in headphones who doesn't speak English and doesn't know what a penguin is.
We go upstairs and I have a hot chocolate. Nomad doesn't open any girls up there, mainly becuase they all look like they are either 20 or 14......So we cruise and really there are not that many ladies about in town. When we get back to the car I see this nice HB8 brunette waiting for a bus. The stop she is waiting at has been moved down the block so I just walk up to be helpful. I had about a 3min convo. I kinda messed up by not switching into my routines etc.....But the point is I opened her right away. The first time I've obeyed the 3 second rule. I am proud of that part, each step brings me closer to tightening my game. I could tell that if I had done my thing right I could have been in there and I definitely think that is the first step on the path to my success....

Tall Blonde

After seeing the bands, I met a bunch of cool dudes and we ended up going to a record release party at a local club. I was wearing some flashing flair and a coupla rough girls kept grabbing me. One of my new mates really liked this girl but was afraid to approach and had no idea what to say. I gave him and opener and literally pushed him at them. He number closed. I think he got himself into the ole LJBF but it was cool to see how easy it is to teach this stuff. Anyways, I saw this hot blond about 4 inches taller than me. For ages I chickened out on approaching. Finally, after being so embarrassed for no reason and a lot of AA, I opened her and her friend with my gay opener. They loved it. I was in set for a long time, ran a coupla good routines, isolated. I never felt like I developed attraction. I need to work on talking to the obstacle first not last. The blond went to the bathroom and I talked to the brunette who my friend was winging, but then he came back so I walked off to DHV by dancing with a girl I'm friends with. Of course, in the time I'm distracted, my lame house mate starts talking to both girls and they run off in under 2 minutes. My favorite part was when he pointed at me while talking to them. I can only imagine.....Later on I was talking to the brunette while the blonde talked to another of my friends. He got her number. While I have my phone out to get the brunette's number the blond runs over and is like we have to leave RIGHT NOW. It was really strange. I think it fell apart because so many guys opened them and a bunch of naturals were out that night. Oh well, I'm glad I opened them. That is still my real challenge.......Softly Sofly.....

South Africans

On Saturday Night I went out with a ton of AFCs I know to a little concert. Even though I'm changing my lifestyle, I still like to spend time with my friends. We get to the venue and there are a lot less people than I was expecting. On the train there I started talking about favorite animals with my friends (you will soon find out I love talking about animals). Anyways my mate's girlfriend said her favorite animal is the gorilla. I told her that a gorilla can turn it's head 360 degrees. She said no way that's owls. I countered with a gorilla can at least turn it's head 180! I mean I know that if you're chasing a gorilla it will be able to look right at you while it's running away....Gorilla's can watch themselves poop. No one believed me, so when I get to the venue I open my first mixed set (3girls2boys) by asking them about gorillas. I transition and root by telling them the discussion started with my friends about favorite animals. So we talk about favorite animals. We chat about five minutes then they all go outside to smoke and invite me along, I use this moment to naturally eject from set and join my friends who are talking to some girls they know. This gives me clear social proof and shows that I am a leader not a follower. During the course of the night we hang out a lot and when I discover they love magic, I have my mate perform a few tricks. They absolutely loved it. I didn't really pursue anyone in the set, I was just happy to meet interesting people from far away. They were lovely and I got one of the guys numbers and I am now facebook friends with all of them.

Sometimes it seems like this whole scene is about one thing, but I want to use the skills I'm developing to make my life and the world around me better. I think those around me had a better time that night and I know I did. I left the concert feeling really good. I am glad to know that I haven't lost my humanity.....yet.

Angel Wings II

I went to a massive rave on Friday. About two thousand people in a dark loud dirty club. I went with my friends, a couple, and another dude they knew. My first concern about an event like this was how to peacock successfully. Half the people were wearing costumes. So I took a page from my play book and broke out my angel wings again. They were the perfect balance of cute and playful. They break the norm and lead many people to assume I am gay, thus allowing me to open more casually. I was opened about 15 times by women. I have realized that older women are more likely to open me. I believe that this means they have more confidence about opening than younger women. So if 15 women opened me, I think that 20-25 at least thought about it. So my confidence is growing.
Anyways, I was at a rave, so I was partaking in the usual accessories. In the end this was my downfall, kind of. I was standing outside the bathroom waiting for my friends gf. This is a great location and an HB6 opened me with her HB9 friend right there. We chatted about 5 minutes before my pivot came out of the bathroom. She told me her cute friend was in there (who I was hoping to meet), then she immediately said we had to get out of there. She literally ripped me out of the set. I was feeling very confident so I maintained my frame and told the girls I might see them later. By controlling the frame I was able to re-open the girls about 3 hours later, when I remembered to go looking for them. Unfortunately, it was a crowd of 2000 people and I forgot what the girls looked like.....then I remembered that they had big hearts painted over one eye each. I actually found them.
I had to wait almost 10 minutes to re-open them as the HB6 was facing a wall deep in conversation with some dude.
I "ran into them" on the dance floor and we just chatted and smiled. I met the other 2 girls they were there with, both HB8s. I spent all my time talking to the 6, as she was the most lucid. I built attraction and rapport. Then I made a mistake and shared my gear with her. She offered some loot, but I said no. I certainly don't want that label anymore. Anyways, it takes about an hour to kick in.....
We danced and I DHVed with my dancing skills. She even asked me at one point if I was trying to impress her with my dancing skills. I just smiled and said why would I want to impress her? She started mirroring me around this time and I became intrigued with it. I basically lost the plot. I kept seeing how outrageous of things she would mirror, arms over my head, scratching like a monkey, puffing out my cheeks.....you get the point. I definately learned a lot about mirroring that night, but I forgot to move into seduction. I lost my kiss-close opportunity. She threw me every IOI in the book, including sending her friends off and also waiting for me when I went to the bathroom.
About an hour after I re-opened, she and her friends wandered off. I was pretty sure that was the end of things and that the train had passed me by. Unfortunately, I couldn't find my friends anywhere. I walked all over the joint for about 20 minutes. I didn't want to be alone at this point. I wasn't at 100% which we all know can break game. Anyways, I ran into the girls again and the HB6 was like oh we just walked around or something like that....I said I couldn't find my friends.....About 5 minutes later they ditched me again.

It would be easy to focus on my failure, but I think at this stage it's important to analyze my mistakes, lest I repeat them.
1. I changed the obstacle into the target, because I felt the obstacle was too fucked
2. I shared my gear for free, which is the same as buying a girl a drink ( I should have realized that at the time......)
3. I got distracted in the middle of the comfort phase and didn't move forward
4. I did a massive DLV by returning to the set too soon
5. I made that DLV bigger by saying I couldn't find my friends.....which is weak for like a dozen reasons we all know

The good note is that I spent time surrounded by beautiful women and got a killer picture of me with the HB9 which I threw on my facebook page and has gotten me a lot of social proof. Even if I can't close that high yet, at least beautiful women are spending time around me.

New Wing

So I have started working with a new wing these past 2 weeks. A lot of people really think it's great to work it alone for ages, but for me it helps so much to have someone there to analyze my moves and mistakes and to work with in sets. The irony is that every time we go out together, the sets are really terrible. Our first night out we went on a Friday to 10 bars/clubs or something and nobody was at any of them. We opened 3 sets at 3 venues, but none of them were really worth closing. It was really good practice, but I mean for a Friday night that was really bleak. This week we went out on a Tuesday and didn't open a single set. We are both pretty new to the scene, so we made a lot of excuses....like it's hard to opene a sitting mixed 9set....she is huge.....or there is nobody here. So we just worked on being really casual and I got him to dance even tho he gets really nervous....So it was a good confidence-building exercise! We text like 50 times a night whenever we are sarging separately. Last night I was freaking out about this HB9 and I hesitated for a few moments, but then I opened the set with the gay opener and it worked like a charm. I was in set for about 30-40 minutes. She even came back later to chat more. Unfortunately I was out with a bunch of guys, including several naturals, so I lost the close at the end. It was a really good experience. I find it hard to really push the close when I'm not personally attracted to a girl. I am really not into blonde's very much....I know it's strange! Anyways, the point is I opened that set because I wanted to tell my wing all about it. And it worked. I def recommend working with a wing, even if they aren't always out with you. It puts me in the right frame of mind. There are about 3 dudes who live closer and want to wing with me, but they are young and talk too much big game for me. It's like they talk about opening 100s of sets but never closing. I only count closes. If I go out and don't get a number or at least a kiss on the cheek I feel so lame. Anyways, I think we are meeting up today to try out Day Game together. I've never done this so it will be a new experience. It's what he really wants to get good at, while I really want to hone my rave game....which I'll explain in my next Angel Wings post!

Angel Wings

So last night was my first real challenge. I went out to a friends birthday party at a club. I really wanted to push myself like Rasputin talks about, so I went out wearing angel wings under my jacket. I told my AFC house mate who actually introduced me to the Game, but then decided he hates it. He was like dude that will embarrass me. I was like I don't wanna do it, that's why I have to. On the way to the party he said that he would support me and do something specific if i ask him to. So i said if i introduce you to some girls i'm talking to you have to promise not to ask their names or their jobs or their ages. He was like I can't promise that. It's nice to ask that. Some girls want to talk about their jobs. I was like dude you're my friend but that's why an AFC can't be the wing for a PUA or even an aPUA like me. All you'll do is give me negative social proof. Anways....

I was sweating and so nervous before I got to the club. It was really outside my comfort zone, but I really want to develop more pure confidence. Anyways the club was super hot and at first I was just going to keep my jacket on. But it was good. I had to take it off or die of heatstroke. Doing this challenge where some of my "friends" were made it so much harder. As soon as I busted 'em out this guy totally hated on me. But every girl loved 'em. I ended up doing my best yet with my techniques.
The birthday girl introduced me to her best friend and I went straight into making her qualify herself and comfort building. I messed up all my DHV routines such as best friends test, but it didn't matter. Like style says, as long as you have the rhythm down it doesn't really matter what you say. I really focuses on IOIs and developing attraction and it worked. She bought me a drink. When I walked away she grabbed me to keep me there. All night I used the moves I've learned. I used push pull all night. I negged her when I needed to and made sure not to compliment her too soon. I number closed about 1 hour into the conversation, which is just about the right amount of time. Everything was just working so well. I couldn't really remember the routines I wanted to try out very well, but I remembered the pattern. I leaned away and did the hand squeeze test. I isolated her and then we changed clubs. I totally messed up the kiss close though. I said you look like you want to kiss me and she said "are you winding me up?" I tried to do like Style says and I said, you just really looked like you want to kiss me. I tried to other kiss closes walking from one club to the other but they both failed. But, during this time she asked if she could spend the night at my house. So I felt confident. At the second club 3 of my AFC friends told me that because I looked so cool they wouldn't steal her from me. I almost laughed in their faces. There is a reason the method i practice is called the Annihilation Method. They couldn't have done anything. They haven't cottoned on to the new me yet. Anyways, I got her back to my place and she put up a lot of LMR. I had to pushpull and punish her a lot, but in the end I fclosed her. It was cool. We did it again in the morning and she just caught the train to work.
I kinda started complimenting her a lot after we had sex. I realize that I've never really paid attention to what to do AFTER I close, so I think my game got a little weak. I asked her 2x if I could see her tonight and she said she has work, but kinda mentioned seeing me on monday or tuesday. I know I did really well last night and I wanted to share how much this stuff really works. Just understanding more of female psychology can help so much.

Oh, and just so you know, the guy who hated on my wings didn't get any love from any girls!